He is the co-author of “Love You, Hate the Porn: Healing a Relationship Damaged by Virtual Infidelity”, ... .If your husband doesn't feel safe - feels that anything said will bring on criticism or an attack or an explosion - an easily offended husband will be created, and he'll probably keep his distance from you. View Chapter Whoever rebukes a man will afterward find more favor than he who flatters with his tongue. 12 And because iniquity shall abound, the love of many shall wax cold. 5 It is not rude; it is not self-seeking, it is not provoked [nor overly sensitive and easily angered]; it does not take into account a wrong endured. 4. It is bigger than you, bigger than your interests, bigger than your happiness. One translation says, "Love does not take into account a wrong suffered." We have learned that it is important for us to learn how to love ourselves as well as love others. And, finally, the only remedy. Paul goes on to say that not only is love not easily angered — love is not provoked — but then next that, "Love keeps no record of wrongs" (verse 5). https://churchword.org/2017/09/27/love-not-easily-angered-triggered To the Editor: The Bible says in 1 Corinthians 13:5 love is not easily provoked or offended. 13 But he that shall endure unto the end, the same shall be saved. 2. What does it mean that those who love the love of God shall not be offended? 1 Corinthians 13:5 Amplified Bible (AMP). Think of how His love moved Him to silence and made Him willing to bear reproach and shame for us. Love Is Not Easily Offended. We have also learned that love is an action as well as an emotion. Respected prophecy expert Perry Stone www.voe.org said we are now seeing the end-time signs Jesus warned about in Matthew 24 with the increase in earthquakes, etc. It seems that people are getting offended more easily. Proverbs 19:11 “A man’s discretion makes him slow to anger, and it is his glory to overlook a transgression.” (NASB) When we are easily angered and offended, we give satan a foothold in our relationships and allow him to steal that from us. Bible verses about Not Being Offended. Let's look at the scripture and study it for a bit. Let’s walk in love today by being slow to anger and not easily offended. Love keeps no account of evil. So it’s unloving to be easily offended. Are hurt feelings proof that someone does not love God's word? 3. Love does not brag, it is not puffed up. Whether it is love or hate, man does not know; both are before him. As an action love is kind, patient, and forgiving, and that love is not proud, rude, or selfish. We live in a world where so many people, regardless of their point of view, seem to be offended – as though carrying an offense was a sure sign of moral rectitude. What is the meaning of Psalm 119:165. 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